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The mental shift you need to get more done.

by | Productivity, Success + Mindset

Do you feel you are not getting everything done you want?

Do you often find that life is unfair?

Do you sometimes feel the world is against you?

Have you ever felt overwhelmed, unable to control everything you have going on?

I have the one tiny shift you need to make to create a huge impact on how much you get done.

The one step

Not only will this step help you get more done every day, you will also have more control over EVERYTHING in your life.

Are you ready?

Take 100% responsibility. get more done

When things go good – take responsibility.

When things go bad – take responsibility.

When you knock it out of the park, when you get to the next step, when you keep your promises…give yourself credit all the way.

When you are late, when you screw up, when you misunderstand, when you jump to conclusions, when you schedule too much for yourself…you must take responsibility, for all of it. The good and the bad.

Show up

To take responsibility you must show up. Everyday 100% be present in the now. Don’t dwell in the past, don’t scrutinize the future, but instead focus on now. Be present and aware of what is happening at this moment.

By taking total responsibility for things in your life you will gain control over the chaos and be able to clearly see your priorities. 

Be a boss

This life is YOURS. And it is yours to lead. You are the boss, you are in charge, but you must take charge.

Once you do this 100% you will feel free.

Life will no longer hand you lemons. You are now directing what it is you want from life.

You will stop putting yourself in positions that cause you stress.

You will stop taking on more than you can handle.

You will stop saying yes to every request.

You will be more aware of what is really going on.

You will see that you always have a choice, and the choice is always yours to make.
Whatever the situation.
Talk about control.

What do you want to change?

Remember the power is yours. Take responsibility and take control.

Not have enough money? Take control. Make more and/or spend less.

Not have enough time? Take control. Say no, delegate and re-prioritize your days. Get up earlier. Do a time audit and find where your time is going.

Not happy with your weight? Take control. Start moving more. Learn how to eat better. Get your family and friends on board.


Take responsibility. 100% responsibility. You have the power here.

This life of yours: you are the boss. You make the rules.

Repeat after me: ”I am the boss. I am a leader. I will take 100% responsibility my life. I will lead from the front and be present. I will succeed in my life, for I am in control.”

List the things you want to change. List the things you want from life. How can you take control and get what you want? What steps do you need to take?

Try this and see the shift yourself. How was it? Is taking 100% responsibility easy for you? Are you struggling with this?



Torie Mathis helps entrepreneurs get from where they are to where they want to be by working smarter.  She is a best-selling author, Army veteran, speaker + trainer, and your mentor to creating the business+ life you love. She has cracked the code for creating a lucrative, independent business + an amazing lifestyle. She can help you with your marketing and business growth, your clarity and purpose and help you reach your vision of success. 🙂


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Hi! I'm Torie!

From living in Europe to attending a prestigious Art School for free to traveling the world with my family and the freedom of entrepreneurship - I have a knack for getting what I want from life. I can help you get from where you are to where you want to be in business and in life.

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